Aamir Shafi Rather
R/o Chetti Bandipura

In a world that moves at lightning speed, where information, trends, and even lives seem to change in an instant, patience has become a rare virtue. Today’s youth are more ambitious than ever, driven by dreams of success and excellence. They are willing to take bold steps, set high goals, and work tirelessly to achieve them. However, there is a growing tendency to seek shortcuts to success, driven by the allure of instant results and immediate gratification. Yet, the true victory does not lie in simply reaching a goal; it lies in winning the battle with one’s own impatience, in enduring the long and often lonely journey to that goal. The real triumph is not about how fast we get there but how well we manage the challenges along the way.As we chase our dreams, we often face obstacles that test our resolve. These moments can break our spirit, making us feel helpless and lost. For the young, whose hearts are full of hope and energy, these setbacks can be particularly painful. But it is during these times of struggle and frustration that the essence of true success is forged. It is not the goal itself that is the toughest victory; it is the patience required to achieve that goal that is the most challenging battle of all.The modern era has conditioned us to expect quick results. From the rapid growth of social media to the swift pace of technological advancements, everything seems to happen in the blink of an eye. We see influencers and entrepreneurs seemingly achieving success overnight, leading us to believe that success is simply a matter of striking at the right moment. However, what we often fail to see is the years of hard work, the countless failures, and the moments of doubt that these individuals have endured to reach where they are.
Today’s youth are caught in this illusion of instant success. They strive for quick gains without realizing that real achievement is not just a destination but a journey—a journey that requires time, effort, and most importantly, patience. When things do not go as planned, frustration sets in. The feeling of being left behind, of not meeting one’s own expectations or those imposed by society, can be overwhelming. This is where the real test begins.
Patience is not just about waiting; it is about maintaining a sense of calm and faith during the waiting period. It is about trusting that every step, no matter how small, is moving you closer to your goal. It is about holding on when everything around you seems to be falling apart. In Islam, patience, or Sabr, is considered one of the highest virtues. The Holy Quran repeatedly emphasizes that Allah is with those who are patient. “And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah]” (Quran 2:45).This verse serves as a profound reminder that patience is not just about passive endurance but about actively maintaining one’s faith and composure through difficult times. When we exercise patience, we align ourselves with a divine promise—that Allah will guide us, support us, and ultimately reward us. Patience is an act of faith, a demonstration of our trust in a higher plan and a higher power.For today’s youth, the inner struggle to remain patient is often the hardest battle. It is easy to feel defeated when progress is slow, when failures overshadow achievements, and when others seem to be moving ahead faster. But it is in these moments of self-doubt and despair that patience becomes the most valuable ally.Patience teaches us to endure, to keep moving forward, no matter how slowly. It encourages us to learn from our setbacks rather than be defined by them. It helps us understand that each failure is a stepping stone, not a dead end. By remaining patient, we build resilience—the kind of resilience that allows us to face life’s challenges head-on without losing hope or giving up.Consider the lives of those who have achieved great things. They did not do so overnight. Their journeys were marked by countless trials and tribulations. It was their ability to stay patient, to persevere through the tough times, and to keep their eyes on the bigger picture that set them apart. They understood that every moment of struggle was shaping them into the person they needed to become to handle the success that awaited them.For those who may be feeling the weight of their journey, remember that you are not alone. Every challenge, every hardship, every moment of uncertainty is a part of the path that has been set for you. Allah, in His infinite wisdom, knows what is best for each of us. As the Quran assures us, “Indeed, Allah is with the patient” (Quran 2:153). This divine companionship is the greatest source of strength we can have.We must remember that patience is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of strength. It takes courage to wait, to trust, and to continue moving forward when everything seems to be going against you. It takes strength to keep believing in your dreams when the world tells you otherwise. But with patience, we build a foundation of faith that no amount of failure can shake.
To the youth of today, let patience be your guiding star. Let it be the light that shines through the darkest of times. Do not be disheartened by the slow pace of progress or the setbacks that come your way. Know that every step you take, every effort you make, is bringing you closer to your goal. The journey may be long, and the path may be difficult, but remember that the greatest victories are those that come with the greatest struggles.Celebrate the small wins, learn from the failures, and keep your heart steadfast in faith. Patience is not just a virtue; it is a way of life. It is the understanding that life is a series of moments, each one with its purpose and lesson. It is the wisdom to know that while we may not always get what we want when we want it, we will always get what we need when we need it.In the end, the toughest victory is not in achieving the goal itself but in mastering the patience needed to reach it. It is in overcoming the urge to quit, in finding strength in moments of weakness, and in trusting the process, no matter how long it takes. Success is not just about reaching the finish line; it is about enduring the race, learning from every stumble, and growing with every stride.Remember, Allah is always with those who are patient. Let patience be your armor, your strength, and your guide. It will not only lead you to success but will also shape you into the person you are meant to become. Hold on, stay patient, and trust that with perseverance and faith, everything will fall into place.

By ASRAR ALI

The upcoming Jammu and Kashmir Assembly elections have ignited a fierce political battle, but beneath the surface, a harsh reality lurks. The elected representatives will have limited authority, while the Lieutenant Governor (LG) wields significant power. This has led to a scramble among politicians and bureaucrats seeking employment and influence.

Since the revocation of Article 370, Jammu and Kashmir’s governance structure has undergone a significant shift. The LG, appointed by the Central Government, now holds substantial authority, rendering the Assembly relatively powerless. This has created a situation where elected representatives will require LG’s approval for even minor decisions.

Former politicians, now without a role, are eager to secure employment and relevance. Retired bureaucrats, driven by a desire for power, are joining the fray. Seasoned politicians are reduced to begging for votes, while others switch parties if not given a mandate. Big political parties have formed alliances despite ideological differences, highlighting the lengths to which they will go to gain power.

Campaign promises range from free electricity to free rations, job security, and prisoner releases. However, these pledges ring hollow, considering the limited authority of the Assembly. The fact remains that these politicians are cut from the same cloth, and their ability to deliver on promises is questionable.

For the people of Jammu and Kashmir, these elections have become mere entertainment, a spectacle to observe from the sidelines. For the contestants, however, this is a game-changing opportunity. The real question remains: will the elected representatives be able to deliver on their promises, or will they be reduced to mere figureheads?

The election’s outcome will shape Jammu and Kashmir’s political landscape, but the underlying power dynamics will remain unchanged. The LG’s authority will continue to overshadow the Assembly, rendering its decisions ineffective. As the region navigates this complex landscape, one thing is clear: the true test of leadership lies ahead.

The Jammu and Kashmir Assembly elections have exposed the harsh realities of politics in the region. With power concentrated in the LG’s hands, the elected representatives will face significant challenges in delivering on their promises. As the people watch the electoral drama unfold, they must consider the long-term implications of this powerless legislature.

“Sakoot e Sehra Mein BasnayWalo”

Zara RutonKaMizajSamjho

Jo AajKa Din Sakoon Say Guzra

TohKalKaMousamKharaab Ho Ga.

By Aubaid Akhoon
[email protected]

“To teach is to touch a life forever.”

Every year, on September 5th, we pause to reflect on and express our gratitude for the invaluable contributions of teachers. Teachers’ Day is more than just a date on the calendar; it is a celebration of those who dedicate their lives to guiding the next generation, shaping not only their intellect but also their character, values, and aspirations.

The Essence of the Teaching Profession

Teaching is far more than the simple transmission of knowledge. It is a vocation, a calling that requires passion, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to nurturing the minds and hearts of students. Teachers are the architects of society, laying the foundational stones for every other profession. They shape the future by influencing the present, ensuring that each learner not only understands the world around them but also how they can contribute meaningfully to it.

In the 21st century, the teaching profession has evolved to encompass a broad spectrum of responsibilities. Modern teachers are not only responsible for delivering content; they are also tasked with inspiring change, fostering creativity, and encouraging critical thinking. They play a crucial role in developing a student’s ability to navigate an increasingly complex world, where knowledge is constantly expanding and the boundaries of what is possible are continuously being redefined.

The Sacred Bond Between Teacher and Student

Among the myriad relationships in life, few are as revered as that between a teacher and a student. This bond transcends the mere exchange of information. It is a relationship built on trust, respect, and mutual growth. In many cultures, including Islam, the teacher’s status is considered on par with that of a parent. This is because teachers, like parents, shape the moral and intellectual foundation of a child.

The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) emphasized the importance of teachers by identifying himself as one: “I was sent as a teacher.” This underscores the profound impact that teaching can have on an individual’s life and the collective progress of society. Parents also play the role of a teacher, and the home is considered the first university of children. Whatever children learn from their parents up until the age of puberty shapes their future lives. Teachers are, in essence, the torchbearers of wisdom, guiding their students through the intricate maze of life.

A good teacher is not just a purveyor of facts but a role model in character, ethics, and behavior. They inspire students by living the values they teach, demonstrating the importance of kindness, patience, empathy, and integrity. In this way, teachers help mold students into not just knowledgeable individuals but also responsible and ethical members of society.

The Modern Challenges of Teaching
The role of a teacher in the modern age is more demanding than ever before. The rapid pace of technological advancement and the ever-changing societal landscape require teachers to be lifelong learners themselves. They must continually update their knowledge and skills to stay relevant and effective in their teaching.

Moreover, the challenges of the 21st century extend beyond the classroom. Teachers must also address the moral and ethical dilemmas that arise in a world where information is abundant but wisdom is scarce. They are tasked with helping students navigate the complexities of social media, the pressures of academic achievement, and the challenges of mental health and well-being.

In this context, moral education becomes as crucial as academic education. Knowledge without a foundation of ethical principles is like a tree without roots—it may grow, but it will never bear fruit. The Qur’an emphasizes the importance of moral education, with many verses dedicated to the development of good character and ethical behavior. In essence, the pursuit of knowledge should go hand in hand with the pursuit of moral integrity.

Appreciation and Criticism of the Teaching Profession

While many teachers are dedicated and passionate about their work, there are unfortunately some who fall short of the high standards expected of them. It is disheartening to hear stories of teachers who lack basic skills or who are disengaged from their responsibilities.

However, it is important to approach criticism constructively. The goal should be to uplift the teaching profession, not to tear it down. One way to do this is by providing ongoing professional development for teachers, ensuring they have access to the latest educational tools and resources. Regular assessments of teachers’ performance, similar to the evaluations students undergo, could help maintain high standards in education.

Additionally, the government could consider policies that encourage teachers to invest personally in the institutions where they work. For example, requiring government teachers to enroll their children in government schools could create a vested interest in improving the quality of education in these institutions.

Balancing Duties: Why Teachers Should Focus on Education

With elections approaching in Kashmir, teachers are often assigned election duties, training, and various additional responsibilities to conduct these elections. Participation is deemed mandatory, and while some teachers may welcome these duties because of the additional perks, this practice raises concerns about their primary role as educators.

Teachers should ideally focus solely on their professional teaching duties to ensure the standard of education in government schools remains high. Unfortunately, many government schools have yet to even conduct a single exam this year, highlighting the negative impact these additional responsibilities can have on education.

The government should consider providing election duties and other roles in various programs to unemployed youth, offering them both training and an opportunity to earn a livelihood. This approach would not only alleviate the burden on teachers but also address unemployment, ensuring that educational standards in government schools do not suffer.

Moreover, the government should refrain from using educational institutes as election booths, as this disrupts the academic schedule and hampers the learning process. The loss of instructional days contributes to a decline in educational outcomes, particularly in government schools, where performance is already a concern. This disruption could further exacerbate the gap in educational standards, affecting students’ future opportunities and the overall quality of education. Alternative venues for election booths should be considered to ensure that students’ education remains uninterrupted.

The Path Forward: Uplifting the Teaching Profession

Improving the quality of education, particularly in government schools, is a critical need of the hour. This requires a multi-faceted approach that includes professional development, resource allocation, and systemic changes in how education is delivered and assessed.

In-service training programs should be introduced to help teachers stay abreast of modern educational practices and technologies. Such programs would not only improve the quality of education but also boost teachers’ confidence and competence, enabling them to better serve their students.
Early this morning, I received a thought-provoking message from a friend, highlighting how many government school teachers are often found in markets, buying gifts and cards for their children who are enrolled in private schools. This observation underscores a critical issue: the lack of personal investment in the very institutions where they teach. Encouraging government teachers to enroll their children in government schools could be a transformative strategy. This move would not only create a personal stake in the quality of education provided but also foster a deeper commitment to improving these institutions. Additionally, the introduction of regular assessments for teachers could be another step toward enhancing educational standards. These assessments should be constructive, focusing on identifying areas where teachers may need additional support or training, rather than serving as punitive measures. Such an approach would promote professional growth and ensure that teachers are equipped to deliver the best possible education to their students.

Finally, society as a whole needs to recognize and celebrate the vital role that teachers play in shaping the future. This involves not just words of appreciation but tangible support in the form of resources, professional development opportunities, and policies that prioritize education.

A Personal Contribution to Education

Whether in a supporting role behind the scenes or in more direct involvement, I, like many others, contribute to students’ education by orchestrating exams, creating assignments, and providing practice papers. We are silent observers to the remarkable dedication of teachers who mold the minds of our budding learners. With a profound sense of pride, we find ourselves deeply engaged in their educational journey, sowing the seeds of knowledge alongside these inspiring educators.

As we celebrate Teachers’ Day, let us remember that the impact of a teacher extends far beyond the classroom. Teachers shape the future by inspiring the next generation to dream, to learn, and to become the best versions of themselves. They are not just educators but mentors, guides, and role models who leave an indelible mark on the lives of their students.

In the words of Scott Hayden, “Teachers have three loves: love of learning, love of learners, and the love of bringing the first two loves together.” Let us honor these guiding lights by supporting them in every possible way, ensuring they have the tools, resources, and respect they need to continue their vital work.

Bottom Line: Honoring the Eternal Influence of Teachers

As we celebrate Teachers’ Day, let us recognize the profound impact teachers have on society. They are not only educators but also mentors, shaping the character and future of our youth. It is a day to honor their dedication, inspire change, and pledge our support to empower these guiding lights as they lead us toward a brighter and more enlightened future.

A Reflection by Allama Iqbal:

“Nahin hai na-ummeed Iqbal apni kisht-e-veeran se,
Zara num ho to yeh mitti bahut zarkhez hai saqi.”

“Iqbal is not despondent of his barren land,
With a little moisture, this soil can become very fertile.”

This couplet by Allama Iqbal perfectly encapsulates the potential that lies within each student—a potential that teachers are uniquely positioned to unlock. With the right guidance and care, even the most barren lands can become fertile, yielding a rich harvest of knowledge, wisdom, and virtue.

Aubaid Ahmed Akhoon Columnist, Motivational Speaker, and Associate Editor of Weekly ‘Education Quill’ Presently Working as Sr. EDP Head at SKIE Classes Khanyar/Soura branch. Instagram ID: Ubi9305 Email: [email protected]

By Qysar ul islam Shah

Happy Teachers Day

Aubaid Ahmad Akhoon

“Etiquette is the poetry of conduct; the rhythm that resonates within and harmonizes our interactions with the world.”

Etiquettes are not merely social constructs; they are the embodiment of one’s inner values, discipline, and respect for others. For conscious and quality people, etiquettes naturally become a lifetime legacy, ingrained in their personality and actions. These behaviors shape our interactions, reflect the quality of our character, and leave a lasting impact on society.

The Essence of Etiquettes in Daily Life
Etiquettes play a crucial role in our daily lives, from how we greet others to how we conduct ourselves in various settings. They are more than just following societal norms; they represent our respect for the feelings, rights, and spaces of others. Simple acts like holding the door open, saying “please” and “thank you,” or listening attentively in a conversation are not just polite gestures but expressions of respect and empathy. For conscious and quality individuals, these values are intrinsic to their way of being.

The Role of Etiquettes in Building Relationships

Etiquettes are fundamental in building and nurturing relationships, both personal and professional. In personal relationships, expressions of gratitude, consideration of others’ feelings, and acts of kindness create a nurturing environment where relationships can thrive. In professional settings, etiquettes such as punctuality, courtesy, and attentiveness foster a culture of respect and cooperation, which is essential for a positive and productive work environment.

Etiquettes as a Reflection of Consciousness

Etiquettes are a reflection of a person’s consciousness—an awareness of oneself and others. Conscious individuals are mindful of their actions and their impact on others. This mindfulness distinguishes quality people, guiding them to act in ways that are respectful, considerate, and kind without needing external reminders. Their actions are driven by empathy and understanding, leaving a lasting impression on those around them.

Conscious individuals also respect cultural and social contexts, adapting their behavior to different environments. This cultural sensitivity is a hallmark of truly conscious people, who respect diversity and strive to make others feel comfortable and valued.

Aggressive Thinking vs. Conscious Etiquettes

Aggressive thinking in the face of peace is the result of a reaction under a negative mindset. Whether individual or collective, aggressive thinking is an example of a weak mind in itself. There is no place for aggressive thinking in Islam. The second and last resort when all other possibilities are ignored is an aggressive move. If one lacks knowledge and the power of expression, the last weapons become ignorant words or arbitrary actions.
Allah, the Lord of Wisdom, in His Holy Book, advises the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) to invite the polytheists of Makkah to the path of Allah Almighty with good speech, wisdom, and understanding. “Call people to the path of your Lord with wisdom and good advice and argue with them in the most courteous way, for your Lord knows best who strays from His path, and knows best who is rightly guided. ” (Surah An-Nahl 125)
Selfishness, hard-heartedness, miserliness, and narrow-mindedness have never been honored. Time will inevitably uncover dishonesty and lies; history has no place for them.

The Lasting Impact of Etiquettes
The impact of etiquettes extends beyond the immediate moment; they leave a lasting impression on others. People who practice good manners and etiquettes are remembered fondly, and their legacy continues to inspire others long after they are gone. This enduring influence is the true power of etiquettes—they transcend time and remain relevant even after one’s passing.

In contrast, wishes and prayers offered after death, while meaningful, often become ritualistic habits performed out of tradition rather than a genuine connection to the deceased. Over time, these rituals may lose their significance and become mere formalities, lacking the depth and lasting impact that living etiquettes provide.

The Contrast Between Living Etiquettes and Posthumous Rituals

While both etiquettes and posthumous rituals hold significance, they differ fundamentally in their impact. Etiquettes are living values practiced throughout one’s life, reflecting a person’s character and consciousness. They have a tangible impact on others and help shape a person’s legacy. Posthumous rituals, on the other hand, are symbolic gestures performed after a person has passed away. While they offer comfort to the bereaved, they do not have the same enduring impact as the values practiced during life.

This contrast underscores the importance of living a life guided by conscious values and etiquettes. It is these living practices that define a person’s legacy and have a lasting impact on society.

Bottom line: The Timeless Value of Etiquettes

Etiquettes are not just rules but a reflection of a person’s inner values, consciousness, and quality. They shape our interactions, build relationships, and leave a lasting legacy. For conscious and quality people, etiquettes are a way of life, deeply embedded in their character. While posthumous rituals have their place, they cannot replace the significance of a life lived with conscious values and etiquettes. These values are the true markers of a life well-lived, creating a lasting impact that endures beyond one’s lifetime.
“Mitta De Apni Hasti Ko Agar Kuch Marta-bah Chahiye,
Ki Danah Khaak Main Mil Kar Gulo Gulzaar Hota Hain.

“Surukh roo hota hain insaan thokray khane k baad,
Rang Laati Hain Hina Pathar Pe Piss Jane K  Baad.
“Meaning:

“Erase your being if you want some honor,
That the grain blooms together in the dust.”
“Crying red is when a person stumbles,
Color comes after henna is thrown on rock.”
These verses remind us that true greatness and lasting impact are born out of humility, perseverance, and a life lived with conscious values. Just as a grain must be buried in the earth to blossom, and henna must be ground to release its color, so must we cultivate our etiquettes and character through life’s challenges. In doing so, we create a legacy that transcends our physical existence and continues to inspire long after we are gone.

Aubaid Ahmed Akhoon Columnist, Motivational Speaker, and Associate Editor of Weekly ‘Education Quill’ Presently Working as Sr. EDP Head at SKIE Classes Khanyar/Soura branch. Instagram ID: Ubi9305 Email: [email protected]