Perseverance and a good conscience as the ultimate victory in life

By Tamana Jeelani

In our fast-paced, highly competitive world today, individuals are measured by what appear to be concrete gains — grades earned, ranks attained, promotions, or profits earned. Pages of newspapers, screens on televisions, and social media are filled with messages congratulating rankings and records. Since childhood, children hear they have been successful by being at the top. Society, either knowingly or unknowingly, teaches us to measure our value by products. There is something much deeper than this rivalry: pure pleasure derived from hard work done in honesty and integrity.

One can easily measure human value by grades, titles, and accolades in a culture that constantly highlights consequences, status, and acclaim. And the highest real success is not seen on diplomas or plaques; it is in the secret of the individual who has done his or her best. To be able to stand before yourself, after a test or any difficulty in life, and be able to say, “I did my best, and I hurt no one,” is a singular and noble triumph. Whether you are in a competitive examination hall, on a sports field, in a corporate boardroom, or simply making choices in everyday life, the inner peace of knowing you worked with honesty and integrity outweighs any external recognition.

Success is very personal. It is not necessarily the definition the world would give it, nor is it extraordinary success. It is being content that one feels when one’s contribution is an extension of one’s values. Even if the outcome was not as expected, the fact that no shortcuts were taken and no undue pressure was employed enables a person to hold his or her head up high.

In education, this is a very relevant point. Children will have an enormous amount of pressure to perform well. The atmosphere around them — parental pressure to comparison with others — sometimes forces them to incline towards unhealthy competition. One should recall at such a time that scores are but one aspect of the learning process. If a learner works hard, gets the timing right, and attacks exams with dedication, then they are already half way to success, no matter what the final mark is.

Likewise, at the workplace, achievement is not ascending the corporate peak or receiving a lucrative pay. There are enough who ascended to the heights and lost their peace of mind as their success was achieved at the expense of values. There are more who will never have glamorous designations but sleep well each night in the knowledge that they were just to others, lived by their word, and added value to the environment.

The journey is as vital — if not more so — than the destination. The things learned, the skills achieved, and the resilience tapped on the journey are truly the building blocks of success. Cuts corners might yield quick results, but at the expense of depriving someone of growth. In addition, wins that are achieved with the cost of unjustice can barely lead to long-term satisfaction.

Another underestimated part of success is self-respect. People who remain honest in their endeavors possess integrity that cannot be purchased or given to them. Even when criticized or when they fail, they remain steadfast because they have a clean conscience. The inner strength enables them to defeat other upcoming challenges without fear.

Our culture has to change from “winning at all costs” to “winning with integrity.” We only praise winners and yet not accord recognition to determination, honesty, and ethical behavior sends the wrong message to the youth. Parents, teachers, and leaders have to get people to believe that doing your best is just as much as achieving the ultimate goal.

True success is also about balance. One can do great things but still not be satisfied if one has sacrificed relationships, health, or one’s happiness in the process. Hard work does not have to include sacrifice of mental health or moral fiber. The best stories are really those who can work hard but stay kind, compassionate, and fair.

The same principle holds true in everyday life as well. Whether handing over erroneous change received mistakenly, not transferring incorrect information, or doing something without a payoff to come afterward, all such acts of honesty are the precepts on which one’s ultimate success shall be based.

When we redefine success as thus, we liberate ourselves from the tyranny of comparison. We start to measure success in terms of personal development, internal peace, and good influence, and not comparatively. That is what enables us to relish our own work and respect others’ paths.

No matter where you go, there will always be rankings, lists, and trophies. But those moments don’t last forever. Titles fade, records are shattered, marks wear off. What last are the character we develop and the peace that we carry within. That is why we must pay attention not just where we arrive, but how we arrive there.

Ultimately, the best reward is being able to say, truthfully, “I worked hard, I stayed true to what mattered to me, and I have no regrets.” That’s a win no score sheet can quantify, and no competition can ever take away from you.

Tamana Jeelani is a student and can be reached at tamanajeelani85@gmail.com

By: Tariq Dar

It’s a Sunday. The war clouds are staring at us from the TV screens though the hustle bustle on the streets of Srinagar betray the current war hysteria.

A phone call adds to the early morning chaos. Dead body of a young man was found in a river flowing across South Kashmir’s Kulgam District. It doesn’t take much time for the usual suspects to blame it on security forces. To them, this is the revenge of the terror attack on tourists in Pahalgam. Euphemisms like ” collective punishment” and “foul play” are being thrown around. Political leaders,social activists and media platforms are at the forefront of yet another mass campaign. Demands of judicial investigation and impartial probe are in the air.

Security establishment is watching from the sidelines.They are familiar with this playbook but this time they are prepared.

Yes, Imtiaz Parrey was picked up by the police for his role in terror activities. He was an overground worker for the terrorists and after two days in detention , he finally accepted his involvement and agreed to guide the security forces to the terrorist hideout. A search operation was planned . The terrain is quite treacherous and as the soldiers cautiously approached the hideout amongst the steep rocky cliffs, Imtiaz jumped into the river stream flowing furiously by the side. It was a calculated risk by him to escape but the flow was too fast for him to negotiate.

The story would have been brushed aside , but the Army is smarter this time. They monitored the entire operation through drones and by evening the recording was made public. It is clear for everyone to see. There is no scope for any allegation against the security forces now.

The terror ecosystem has lost this particular round. But they will be waiting to strike again. At every possible opportunity.

Meanwhile, it’s time for another tragedy. Three soldiers have died after their Army vehicle skidded off the road and plunged into a 700 foot deep gorge in Ramban district, not very far from Kulgam.

Unlike Imtiaz Parrey, no one here knows the names of these three soldiers. There are hardly any obituaries for those who died in the line of duty.

Rest in Peace. Subedar Sujeet Kumar, Lance Naik, Man Bahadur Thapa and Driver Amit Kumar. We Salute Your Sacrifice.

By : AS KHUIHAMI

In a land known for Alim, Adab and Aab,for its breathtaking beauty and enduring spirit, a young girl from Bandipora Kharpora has become a symbol of hope, determination, and excellence. Humiya Arshid, a student of Gopi Singh Rathore Army Goodwill School, Bandipora, has made the entire bandipora proud by scoring an outstanding 492 out of 500 marks (98.4%) in the Class 10 board examinations.

Her remarkable achievement is more than just academic success , it is a heartfelt narrative of faith, perseverance, and quiet strength that echoes across every corner of the valley.

A Night of Tears and Triumph:
The moment the results were announced, emotions ran high in the Arshid household. It was late evening, around 10 PM, when the result link went live. Humiya, sitting beside her paternal aunt, was trembling with anxiety. “I was so nervous; I kept praying to Allah. My aunt was more scared than me,” she recalls with a smile.

But when the screen finally lit up with her score 492 marks — disbelief took over. Her aunt screamed in joy, burst into tears, and within moments, the room was filled with tears of happiness. “My mother cried, my father couldn’t stop smiling, and for a while, I was completely speechless,” Humiya says, still overcome with emotion.
The victory was even more meaningful because she became the first girl in her family’s bloodline to achieve such a milestone — an emotional, historical moment for her entire lineage.

The Quiet Warrior: Overcoming Health Challenges.
Humiya’s journey was not without hurdles. She faced continuous health issues throughout the academic year, which often made it hard for her to concentrate. Yet, she chose not to give up. “It’s natural to feel low sometimes,” she says honestly. “But I always reminded myself — if I believe in myself and keep reading, I can do it. That belief, and my prayers, helped me through.”
She saved her best efforts for the last stretch — the final two months — where she poured her energy into focused preparation. Her story is a testimony to the power of self-discipline, faith, and resilience.

Breaking the Myths: A Simple, Honest Strategy
Contrary to what many believe about toppers, Humiya did not follow a rigid study plan or rely on high-end coaching. “I never had a fixed timetable. I used to study for 2–3 hours a day, but with full attention. I made handwritten notes from what my teachers taught and revised them weekly,” she shares.

Her school’s weekly test system played a significant role in keeping her preparation consistent. “It helped me track my progress and build confidence gradually.”

Her advice to fellow students is practical and powerful: “Don’t wait till the last month. Start early. Study daily, even if for a few hours. Focus more on your weak subjects. And take mock tests — even the ones you make yourself. It builds your speed, accuracy, and confidence.”

A Pillar of Support: Family, Teachers, and Belief

Behind every successful student is a team that believes in them. For Humiya, this team included her parents, teachers, and especially her grandfather. “There was always nervousness inside me,” she admits. “But my parents never let me give up. My teachers always encouraged me. And my grandfather – he constantly motivated me to believe in myself.”

Her gratitude towards her school staff is heartfelt. The Principal of Gopi Singh Rathore AGS Bandipora proudly described her as a brilliant, hardworking, and multi-talented student, noting her active participation in co-curricular activities alongside academics. “Humiya is a role model, not just for our school, but for the whole district,” he said.

A Future Rooted in Passion and Purpose
Currently pursuing medical studies in Class 11, Humiya has set her heart on becoming a doctor. “I’ve always loved biology. Chemistry was tough for me, but I put in the effort and improved. I’m passionate about wearing the white coat one day and serving people. I want to make my parents proud and help those in need.”

Her dream is driven not by prestige, but by purpose. She knows the journey will be long and challenging, but she remains grounded in her faith and determination.

A Message for Students :
To young students across the Valley who look up to her, Humiya offers a message filled with hope and sincerity:
“Consistency is the real key. Don’t think you need to study all day — just 2 to 3 hours with honesty and regularity is enough. Trust your teachers, believe in yourself, and most importantly, keep your connection with Allah strong. He listens when you pray with your heart.”

Bandipora’s Brightest Star
In the words of her proud aunt: “This is not just a personal achievement — it’s a proud moment for all of Kashmir and particulary for bandipora that Our children are shining, and Humiya has shown what is possible with hard work and faith.
As the first daughter in her family to reach such academic heights, Humiya Arshid has etched her name into Bandipora’s story of rising youth. Her achievement stands as a powerful reminder that dreams, no matter how high, can be achieved even from the quiet corners of the valley.

By Rameez Makhdoomi

Recently, Jammu and Kashmir witnessed a historical Conclave of women leadership and empowerment
The three day Stree Shakti Women Leaders Conclave 2025, held in Srinagar, Kashmir, from 6 April to 9 April marked a significant milestone in promoting gender equity, women leadership and empowering women. Organized by Stree Shakti – The Parallel Force and She Leads, the three-day event brought together women leaders from diverse backgrounds, including academics, politics, civil society, and thought leaders from across the country.

Rekha Mody, Founder of Stree Shakti, welcomed inspiring women leaders, emphasizing that women empower each other through interactions and shared experiences. She expressed that women are empowered when they interact with and meet other empowered women. During the inaugural session, eminent author and Sahitya Academy Award winner Alka Sarogi discussed her novel “Gandhi and Sarla Devi,” highlighting the legendary role of Sarla Devi and the contributions of women in India’s freedom struggle.
On second day , at IIM Nowgam ,
The conclave featured diverse sessions on entrepreneurship, economic empowerment, women’s health, holistic well-being, sports, and gender equality, with over 100 women leaders sharing their expertise.
At royal Springs Golf course at inaugral filled with hope ,
Dr. Jyotsna Suri, Chairperson Managing Director of The Lalit Suri Hospitality Group, shared her iconic journey and her role as a leading figure in India’s hospitality sector. She praised Stree Shakti’s efforts in organizing this historic conclave in Kashmir and urged the women of Jammu and Kashmir to excel in every field. Eminent woman leader Khair Ull Nissa Sheikh anchored the program. Nuzhat Gull, Sports Secretary of JK, shared how the women of Jammu and Kashmir are achieving remarkable success in sports and provided perspective on the milestones accomplished by Jammu and Kashmir in the past five years.

The conclave’s comprehensive approach to addressing women’s issues was widely appreciated, with many participants expressing their gratitude for the opportunity to engage with thought leaders and change-makers. The event served as a catalyst for meaningful conversations, inspiring a new wave of women’s empowerment and leadership in the region.

During second day, Rekha Mody, the founder and Chairperson of Stree Shakti, opined that Kashmir has been an epicenter of positive power and spirituality, and they are not there just for women’s empowerment but to give a message of peace and prosperity to the entire world. She observed that already burning demands raised by Stree Shakti and She Leads, like free transport for women and reservation issues, have been addressed, and more recommendations would come up through this historic conclave.

The Stree Shakti 2025 Women’s Leaders Conclave witnessed enthralling vibrancy on its final day at prestigious SKICC Srinagar. Rekha Mody lit the welcome flame, and Former Chief Minister and NC patron Dr. Farooq Abdullah was the guest of honor. Eminent women leaders spoke on the occasion, with Aruna Oswal, an eminent social worker, observing, “Let us create a viksat Bharat for every woman of the country where she acts boldly and thinks freely.” Dr. Farooq Abdullah emphasized the need for women to work hard to rise and make use of reservation opportunities without being controlled by men. He also offered land to Stree Shakti to establish a Center for the holistic welfare of women.
Dr. Farooq Abdullah promised suitable land for Stree Shakti to establish women’s center in Jammu and Kashmir.

The conclave concluded with the presentation of awards, including the prestigious Dayawati Modi Stree Shakti Award to Farzana Mumtaz, Editor-in-Chief of Weekly News Kashmir, for her outstanding contributions to media and women’s leadership. The award is a recognition of her dedication to promoting women’s empowerment and leadership. The conclave’s legacy will continue to inspire women leaders and promote gender equity in the region.
Professor Kashinath a renowned global scholar of Sanskrit from Nepal was conferred the prestigious Vidushi Vidyotma award for his scholarly contributions.
Stree Shakti Women Leaders Conclave has crafted an unique history in the women leadership of not just region but entire country and world.

By Er Ishfaq Khaliq

What is WAQF: –

Under Islamic law waqf is the property which is given to charity religiously, for charitable purposes someone donates his land as religious charity to waqf under Islamic law so that he gets benefits in the form of good deeds the person who donates the portion of the property to the waqf believes that the properties ownership and its properties are Allah since Allah is not a physical being so a mutawalli is appointed its caretaker and he does it for the sake of Allah or he gets paid a low fee in the form of salary or so.

When waqf was started in India:-(the Mughal era waqf in India), the increase of waqf properties in India

The waqf is believed to have started from the Delhi Sultanate period. Sultan Muizuddin Sam Ghaor donated two villages for the Jama Masjid in Multan so in the Mughal era the waqf properties began to increase in India as the majority belonged to Muslims in India and so did their rulers tried to keep the waqf properties contributors on high notes so waqf properties increase in that period.

The decrease of waqf properties in India:

As the Britishers came the properties belonging to waqf started to decrease and the charity givers of the properties were reduced because of the fact that British influence was in India so were the rulers and the British believed that the war was a bad practice and should be stopped immediately they were thinking it a danger to their existence so British judges called Waqf a bad practice and tried to remove it.

The beginning of safeguarding of waqf and waqf properties in India:

In 1913, the Musselman Waqf Validating Act was passed to protect Waqf properties in India.

Since 1954 onwards, the law on the Waqf Act has been changing, and till 2022, it was repealed. Below is given in more detail:

Waqf Act, 1954: This law created a system to manage Waqf properties better. A Central Waqf Council was set up in 1964 under this Act.

Waqf Act, 1995: This law gave more power to Waqf boards and made their decisions final. It also created Waqf Tribunals to settle disputes.

Amendments in 2013: Some changes were made in 2013 to make Waqf management more transparent.

How the waqf began to change in India:

first, a waqf amendment bill was introduced in 2013 to make the waqf more transportable and to function the waqf institutes and ceremonies better the law safeguarded and made transparency in the waqf now in 2022 Waqf Repeal Bill, 2022, This bill was introduced in 2023 to ensure fairness in the treatment of religious properties.

How much property belongs to waqf in India:

The fact is that the waqf is the largest land owner of the country second is Indian railways and armed forces in India, The Waqf Board controls 8.7 lakh properties spanning 9.4 lakh acres across India, valued at an estimated 1.2 lakh crores. The country with the largest waqf holdings in the world is India. The Waqf Board is the largest landowner in India after the Armed Forces and Indian Railways.

Why the need was felt that the Waqf Bill 2024 should be implemented:

Government on finding the facts made various committees the situation of  waqf like jpc committee was formed Sachar Committee Report, Joint Parliamentary Committees (JPCs), public representatives, mediaafter cross examining the facts the government felt that there is mismanagement in the waqf properties despite being the largest stake holders in India the revenue from the waqf properties were negligible and it was found that mutawalli’s who are safeguarding the properties have misused their power the properties were distributed like shops rental buildings etc. were given on rent for just some pennies it was seen that the shop owned by waqf whose monthly rent was mere 100 Rs in 1990 is still operating on those 100Rs similarly the shop owned in the same location without waqf was giving rent of 3000 to 10000 Rs monthly also the mutawalli’s misused their power they were benefitting the people of their choice and the revenue generation and transparency was affected resulting in the loss and misuse of the properties of waqf .

Why Muslims are opposing the Waqf Amendment Bill 2024:

• The Muslims say that the bill is unconstitutional and the BJP has introduced the bill in parliament forcibly and unconstituently, creating chaos and confusion among the local masses of India the bill clearly says that a Muslim practicing his religion for 5 years could donate or waqf his property to the waqfs which was not seen before as Muslims believe that charity has no borders it can be given by anyone anytime despite the all odds and ups and downs weather by a regular practicing Muslims or by a non-regular practicing Muslims also Muslims chiefs have been eliminated from the decision makings.

•  Muslims believe their clerics are their Supremes their decisions are considered final in Islam and they make decisions Islamically according to Sharia and is acceptable to all now the bill introduced makes it clear that they can no longer make decisions on their own but rather a joint secretary level or CEO of the waqf appointed by the central government is the supreme decision maker however if Muslims community feels their decision as unfair they can approach to court to challenge the decision.

• One more fact of the bill is that” waqf by user” which says that the waqf property can only be donated to waft if it has been used for many sufficient years for the purpose of charitable and religious purposes neither it cannot be given as charity to waqf which has created chaos and put in danger many waqf properties throughout India.

• The mutawalli’s who were serving many religious ceremonies and many waqf properties their livelihood has been put in danger by the new waqf amendment bill so they feel the bill should be opposed and laws should be revoked.

• The bill has a provision of including two non-Muslim members in the waqf council or board Muslims believe it is an interference in the religion and unconstitutional They believe that the Right to freedom of religion is well described in Articles 25, 26, 27 and 28 of Indian constitution. Before the State no religion shall be given preference over the other. Citizens are free to preach, practice and propagate any religion of their choice. And they can easily make their own decisions constitutionally.

• The Muslims believe the bill is Targeting Muslim liberties creating division religiously the article contradicts articles 14,25,26,29 of the Indian constitution.

• Muslims believe it is an attempt not only to get the state’s control over Muslims’ properties but also of the Hindu community over the Muslim community’s lives.

The safeguarding of the religion is governed by the constitution of India there is mismanagement in waqf and its properties but some amendments should be made to make it digestible for the Muslim Community as well they should also take a sigh of relief from the bill if some changes which are genuine and not favoring and safeguarding them a Muslim tribunal of parliamentarians should be made to make amendments constitutionally and should be implemented by the government of India if possible.

Er Ishfaq Khaliq

Sr. Engineer ANAF.PVT.LTD.

By:Waris Nissar

In the bustling world we live in, where distractions are abundant and time is fleeting, few practices offer Muslims a chance to disconnect from the material and reconnect with the spiritual like I’tikaf does. This revered practice, which involves secluding oneself in a mosque for worship, prayer, and reflection, is particularly significant during the last ten days of Ramadan.

While I’tikaf is not a newly introduced concept, its spiritual importance remains as profound today as it was in the time of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). Rooted in the Qur’an and Sunnah, I’tikaf holds a timeless position in Islamic tradition as a powerful means to cleanse the soul, renew one’s relationship with Allah, and seek His boundless mercy.

The Essence of I’tikaf: A Moment of Spiritual Seclusion

I’tikaf, derived from the Arabic root word “عكف” (akaf), meaning to remain or to stay, involves isolating oneself in the mosque with the primary intent of worship. While it can be observed throughout the year, it is most significant during the last ten days of Ramadan. This is a time when Muslims make a concentrated effort to increase their devotion, hoping to experience the blessings of the “Night of Decree” (Laylat al-Qadr), which is described in the Qur’an as being better than a thousand months (Surah Al-Qadr, 97:3).

A Qur’anic Foundation for I’tikaf

Although the term I’tikaf is not explicitly mentioned in the Qur’an, the concept and its significance are clearly supported by verses that guide Muslims toward spiritual isolation and reflection.

One of the central references is in Surah Al-Baqarah (2:187), which says:

“And it is not lawful for you to approach them (your wives) during I’tikaf while you are in the mosques. These are the limits set by Allah, so do not approach them. Thus Allah makes clear His signs to people that they may become righteous.”

This verse highlights the sanctity of the I’tikaf period, emphasizing the importance of seclusion in the mosque and the focus on worship during this time.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-Ahzab (33:21), Allah reminds the believers to follow the example of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in seeking closeness to Allah:

“Indeed, in the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) you have an excellent example to follow for those who hope in Allah and the Last Day and remember Allah often.”

The Prophet’s Example: A Model for I’tikaf

The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) set the precedent for I’tikaf by practicing it himself, especially during the last ten days of Ramadan. A’isha (RA), the beloved wife of the Prophet, reported in Sahih Bukhari that the Prophet (PBUH) would seclude himself in the mosque during this time for prayer, fasting, and seeking closeness to Allah.

The Prophet’s dedication to I’tikaf was not just a ritual act, but a demonstration of deep devotion. It was during these moments of seclusion that the Prophet (PBUH) would intensify his worship, meditating and reflecting on his mission, while also praying for the forgiveness and mercy of Allah.

The Spiritual and Social Benefits of I’tikaf
1. Personal Growth and Purification of the Soul

One of the most profound spiritual benefits of I’tikaf is the opportunity for inner purification. By removing oneself from the distractions of daily life, a person can focus entirely on their relationship with Allah. The hours spent in the mosque are filled with prayer, recitation of the Qur’an, dhikr (remembrance of Allah), and contemplation. This practice helps in cleansing the heart from worldly desires and refocusing on what is truly important: faith, piety, and closeness to the Creator.
2. Seeking Laylat al-Qadr: A Night of Unmatched Blessings

The last ten days of Ramadan are especially revered because of the possibility of Laylat al-Qadr (The Night of Decree), a night in which the Qur’an was revealed to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). The rewards of worship during this night are immense, as Allah’s mercy and forgiveness are said to be abundant. Engaging in I’tikaf increases the chances of witnessing this blessed night, as it encourages Muslims to engage in extra acts of worship and supplication in the final days of Ramadan.
3. Strengthening the Community

While I’tikaf is a personal endeavor, it also strengthens the collective spirit of the Muslim community. The mosque, where the act of I’tikaf is performed, becomes a focal point of worship and unity. Muslims come together, regardless of their backgrounds or personal struggles, to seek Allah’s mercy. This shared experience fosters a sense of brotherhood and sisterhood, transcending worldly differences and focusing purely on the worship of Allah.
4. A Return to the Basics of Faith

I’tikaf serves as a reminder of the simplicity and purity of faith. In an era where materialism often prevails, the practice of seclusion in the mosque encourages believers to detach from the worldly distractions that frequently cloud their judgment. In doing so, it brings a renewed focus on the essentials of faith: devotion, prayer, and the sincere pursuit of Allah’s pleasure.

A Call for Devotion: Embrace the Spirit of I’tikaf

As we engage in our spiritual journey, I’tikaf offers a unique chance to reflect on our relationship with Allah. For those who may not be able to observe I’tikaf physically due to personal circumstances, the essence of the practice remains accessible through prayer, increased acts of worship, and introspection.

I’tikaf is not merely a form of seclusion in the mosque, but a reminder that true success in life is measured not by material achievements, but by the quality of one’s relationship with Allah. In the quiet of the mosque, free from the distractions of daily life, a believer has the opportunity to reflect on their past actions, seek forgiveness, and renew their commitment to a life of piety.

As the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said:

“Whoever does I’tikaf with faith and seeking reward from Allah, will have his past sins forgiven.” (Sahih Bukhari)

Thus, the practice of I’tikaf is not just a physical act of seclusion, but a profound spiritual journey that leads to a renewed heart, a purified soul, and the hope of Allah’s forgiveness.

By: Aubaid Ahmad Akhoon

Life moves like a gust of wind—unseen, unstoppable. We run alongside it, believing we are in control, yet we are merely passengers in time’s grand design. In our relentless pursuit of success, recognition, and a future that always seems just within reach, we often fail to notice the present slipping away.
Mornings turn into nights, weeks into years, and before we realize it, the hands of the clock have moved too far ahead. We plan for tomorrow, invest in dreams, and chase fleeting desires, assuming there will always be time for love, laughter, and peace. But does time ever wait?
The late Anwar Sadeed, a renowned Pakistani critic, researcher, and columnist, beautifully captured this truth in his couplet:

“Sail-e-zaman mein doob gaye mashhoor-e-zamana log,
Waqt ke munsif ne kab rakha qaa’im un ka naam.”
“The tide of time has drowned even the greatest of names.
When has time’s judgment ever kept their legacy intact?”

The tide of time spares no one—kings, poets, warriors. Once celebrated, now forgotten. Their names, once etched in history, now fade like whispers in the wind. What, then, truly remains? Not wealth, for gold loses its luster. Not power, for thrones crumble into dust. What endures are the moments of kindness we shared, the love we selflessly gave, and the righteous deeds we performed—those that continue to benefit others, becoming our eternal legacy, our sadaqah jariyah.
Yet, in our relentless pursuit of success, we mistake motion for progress, forgetting that life is not measured by the milestones we reach but by the moments we cherish. We chase distant dreams, blind to the beauty already surrounding us—the rustling of leaves whispering secrets to the wind, the silent comfort of a loved one’s presence, the peace found in a whispered prayer. True fulfillment lies not in the relentless race for more but in the quiet embrace of what is already ours.
Another poet beautifully expressed this sentiment:

“Haasil-e-zindagi hasrat ke siwa kuch bhi nahi,
Ye kiya nahi, woh hua nahi, ye mila nahi, woh raha nahi.”
“The essence of life is nothing but longing—
What wasn’t done, what didn’t happen, what wasn’t gained, what was left behind.”

How often do we count our losses instead of cherishing what we have? We mourn unfulfilled dreams, unsaid words, and untaken roads. But do we ever pause to appreciate the love we received, the small joys we lived, and the peace we found in quiet moments?

Live Now, Before Time Moves On

Why do we always believe happiness is waiting for us in the future?
We tell ourselves:
“Once I have more money, I’ll be happy.”
“Once I get my dream job, I’ll find peace.”
But what if that one day never comes? What if, in waiting for the perfect moment, we lose the only moments that truly mattered?
This endless pursuit of desires is nothing new. The great Ghalib already captured this reality in his timeless couplet:

“Hazaron ḳhvahishen aisi ki har ḳhvahish pe dam nikle,
Bahut nikle mire arman lekin phir bhi kam nikle.”
“A thousand desires, each so intense that it could take my last breath away,
Many were fulfilled, yet too few compared to those that remain.”

No matter how much we achieve, our hearts always long for more. We chase after dreams, forgetting to cherish what is already in our hands. But true fulfillment is not in accumulating more—it is in appreciating the beauty of the present moment.Life is happening now. Not in some distant future, not in the memories of the past, but in this exact moment—the laughter of a loved one, the gentle breeze on our face, the warmth of a hug, the beauty of the sky. These little things, often ignored, are the real treasures of life.

Fly High, But Keep Your Feet on the Ground

Soar with grace, embrace the sky,
Yet dust we are, and dust we lie.

Ambitions and dreams are important, but not at the cost of losing yourself. Chase your goals, but don’t forget to cherish what you already have. No matter how high we fly, we must remember that one day, we will return to the same earth.

So why let ego and pride consume us? Why not walk with humility and gratitude? Why not focus on love, kindness, and the things that truly matter?

Time Invested in Relationships Is Never Wasted
We often take our relationships for granted, assuming people will always be there. We prioritize work over family, phone screens over real conversations, and status over emotions. But when time takes these people away from us, we realize too late that we should have given them more of ourselves.
Give time to your loved ones. Listen when they speak. Hold their hands while you can. Apologize before it’s too late. Love them fully, without conditions. Because once they are gone, no amount of regret can bring them back.
Gratitude: The Secret to a Fulfilled Life
Fate gives us what is meant for us, and no force in the world can change that. But are we grateful for what we have? Or do we always focus on what’s missing?
Instead of constantly wanting more, let’s appreciate what’s already in front of us. Let’s stop living in what ifs and somedays and start embracing what is.
Life is not about counting the years—it’s about making the years count. There’s a difference between merely surviving and truly living.
So, before life slips away, pause.
Take a deep breath. Look around. Feel this moment. Live it—because once it’s gone, it will never come back.

About the Author:
Aubaid Ahmad Akhoon is a distinguished Educational Columnist, Motivational Speaker, and Associate Editor of the weekly educational publication Education Quill.
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