Development Of Moral Values in School Going Children is Both
A common Responsibility and A Common Duty of Parents and Teachers
Every man lives in two realms:The internal and the external.The internal is that realm of spiritual ends expressed in art, literature, morals, and religion. The external is that complex of devices, techniques, mechanisms, and instrumentalities by means of which We live.
By Mukhtar Ahmad Qureshi
If there is no healthy environment, School and home Education becomes meaningless for the Child. A child learns a lot from the attitude of Mentors and Family Members at home and fellow Students at School.To understand their Psychology, We Should put Ourselves in their place.Society is a Collection of Individuals.The development of a Society depends on people with different expertise. People with a healthy mindset make a healthy society and these healthy mindsets and habits are nurtured in the individuals from Childhood. It is said that a mothers Lap is a Childs First Education. A child learns from his mother, from the way of talking to the way of life. After the mother, the values of the home, family and society are the cause of growth in the education of the Child. A child does not act by listening so much as by following his elders. Their action stake effect very quickly.
Health around the child.A child needs a healthy environment around him. The things that made us happy, the things that we used to get bored, our enthusiasm, curiosity, friendship, enmity, we can feel every emotion and in the mirror of this we can understand our children and students in a very good way.It is very important for Us to be close to them to influence them positively for better care. When the child starts trusting Us, starts watching our behaviour closely, then we become a role model for him. It starts influencing our personality both good and bad. In such a situation, it is our responsibility to set an example of uniformity in our words and actions for the child so that the child can take positive attitude, positive values and positive social style from Us and adopt it to become the best member of the Society. Children have the responsibility of distinguishing right from wrong, difference between good and bad, politeness of adults, kindness to children, parents, helpers and other family members. It is also important to strengthen children personally that not all their wishes are fulfilled. If some desires are unfulfilled, the spirit of self-control will also develop in children. The quality of self-control will come. The main aim of those who train children should be to develop self-control in them completely and to control it according to the voice of their conscience. Training should also include moral order, social order, and compatibility and harmony with the environment. Children are very competitive. It can be taught to children through strong methods. A child’s spirit of competition in academics, sports can be satisfied provided he is made to believe that winning and losing are part of sports and competition and not taken to heart. We often see that children are used to abusing their parents’ authority, money, power, etc., due to which they feel superior. They start to think of themselves as superior and other people as inferior. It is the responsibility of parents to inculcate in their young children the habit of humility and understanding of all as equals. All these concepts should be enlightened by parents and teachers.
Many children also have leadership potential, by polishing it, children can be shown the right path and can be used as a great purpose in life. During training we consciously influence children’s tendencies, so we should also find out what and how much is the difference between Our and the childrens point of view. Accordingly We should take care to help strengthen the positive aspects of their nature and help them with more attention to the negative aspects. Proper training of children will produce the best people and the best people will make the best society.
Equal opportunities Should be given to All Children at home and at School Without Social bias Like,Caste,Colour,Sex,Family Status and ability to understand the things.
Government announced the New Education Policy (NEP) 2020.In NEP-2020 a Positive Importance is given to Development of Moral Values of School going Children, as the Children are the imitators of all the behavioural Changes took place in their homes and Schools in different situations. It is the prime responsibilities of Teachers to observe Children keenly for Positive Changes.
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